2-The POWER of WORD

   Have you gyz ever got hurt by the words that someone have said to you?
For example "Fu** You!!".  If I don't even know you, you would feel hurt, sad. But if I am your friend and I just said this for fun or just a light expression, you won't  get hurt, in fact some other people laughs with it. As you can see, words can be a blade and can be a flower in how we use it. Before I tell you how it could be a blade and a flower, let me tell u my story.

I was bullied when I was Grade 5 elementary. I wasn't hurt, I wasn't beaten up, my things wasn't lost or broken, they didn't do anything to me. They bullied me using words. Things that hurt my feelings.
Made fun with my name, said something bad about my family and many other stuff. My heart was hurt, There were times that I actually didn't like to go to school. One day I said to the teacher what is on my mind about them. But it seems that I was only thinking in a wrong way. It was their ordinary talking categories. No one was thinking so deeply, in fact they were just saying that because they wanted me to also join in what they want to talk with me. I felt relief. But I didn't like the way they wanted to come close to me.

As you can see, words can be a blade. Based on my experience, you should be careful in what you say. Let me give you another example, imagine you are talking to your gf/bf. now he/she says to you "I hate you!". What do you feel? Some of you might feel sad, some of you might feel angry, some might cry. Some also says that it depends on the situations. Well I also think it depends on the situation.(example) If  I prank my gf, I think she would say that to me,but I don't think it so deep. Because I know whats the reason that she said that. But if she said that suddenly, i wouldn't understand. How about if she/he says ' I love you'. Don't all of us like the sound of that?( If no, then there's a problem with you.) It really matters on how we accept or receive the word.

Now I want to ask you this, What was the last word you said to someone yesterday? Was it a good thing that you said? If not, does he or she understands what and why you said that? I wan all of us to think before we say something, because there are words that can make people happy. But in the same time it can also hurt someone that it could never heal again. Who knows a word that you say can save a person and can kill ones heart.And finally I would like to say sorry to those that I hurt you.
Thank you for reading and God bless.